Mixed Matters

Happy New Year Greeting

2012-01-10T10:14:00.001-08:00

Co-host Charles Chatmon wishes everyone a happy new year as well as dropping hints of possible big news with Mixed Matters.

The Geri Chatmon Interview

2011-11-22T14:14:00.001-08:00

This edition of Mixed Matters features Geri Chatmon, an up and coming author who reads selections from and discusses her new book, 'Upon The Face of the Deep' with host Charles Chatmon.

Upon The Face of the Deep
Geri Chatmon's Facebook page

National Action Network

The Until No More Interview

2011-11-17T15:08:00.001-08:00

We've been gone for a while, but we're glad to be back. To help us celebrate, we're interviewing poetess Until No More sharing her pieces, her thoughts on writing poetry and her experiences in media and reviewing books.

The place for cool conversation is back! We invite you to join us.

http://www.untilnomore.net
http://untilsbookoftheweek.blogspot.com

Archive: The Tim Alexander Interview

2011-03-29T21:57:00.000-07:00

From the Mixed Matters/Empire Beat Magazine archives.....

Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams (sporting a California Writers Collective tee shirt) interviews filmmaker Tim Alexander, the director of 'Diary of a Tired Black Man' inside the Lucy Florence coffeehouse in Leimert Park on November 2007.

Website: Tired Black Man Movie Blog

Chandra Adams Book Signing - March 2010

2010-12-10T07:11:00.001-08:00

Chandra Adams and Charles Chatmon, the co-hosts of Mixed Matters present a forum based on Chandra's book, Shades of Retribution at Classic One Books in Los Angeles on March 6, 2010. The long awaited sequel, Shades of Redemption will be released in 2011.

A Message from Charles Chatmon

2010-12-10T06:35:00.001-08:00

Mixed Matters co-host Charles Chatmon takes time out to thank the supporters of the show, plus has an announcement about the future direction of North Bay Media Review.

Atlanta Black Book Expo

2010-07-04T08:27:00.001-07:00

Host Charles Chatmon interviews Kelly Johnson Dawkins, co-founder of the Atlanta Black Book Expo, entering its first year. Kelly reveals the reasons for starting the expo, what's on tap for this year and her long term vision for the event.

Atlanta Black Book Expo: http://www.abbexpo.com

The Edward Going Interview

2010-06-18T22:53:00.001-07:00

On the next Mixed Matters…..

A young man is sent to his grandfather’s for the summer and learns more about life than he imagined. He finds out even the lesser known of us can create a huge impact in everyone’s lives. Author Edward Going goes one on one with host Charles Chatmon in a conversation of his book ‘Kenny’s Summer’.

This is a show you don’t want to miss.

Contact Edward at kennyssummer@gmail.com
Website: http:// kennyssumer.com

Marti Tucker - Premiere Writers

2010-06-16T21:25:00.001-07:00

Premiere Writers at the LA Times Festival of Books:
Dr. Maxine Thompson, Stan Allotey, Lutishia Lovely, Janice Lauderdale

Host Charles Chatmon is on the road at the LA Times Festival of Books with Premiere Writers founder and adviser, author Marti Tucker of The Mayor's Wife Wore Sapphires. Marti gives her reasons for starting the group along with their members and upcoming plans.

Website: http://premierewriters.ning.com

The Keith Adams Interview

2010-04-21T13:57:00.001-07:00

On the next Mixed Matters....

We return with our first show of 2010 with Keith Adams, the author of Broken Whole: a California tale of Craziness, Creativity and Chaos". Join us as host Charles Chatmon talks with Keith about dealing with bi-polar disorder in his personal memoir that’s sure to be a must-read.

http://www.brokenwhole.com
http://brokenwholeblog.blogspot.com

The Don Smith Interview

2009-12-11T20:06:00.001-08:00

On the next episode of Mixed Matters…..

Host Charles Chatmon closes out an exciting 2009 as he has a ‘heart to heart’ talk with the author of ‘Do you feel Me? Poetry from the Heart of a Black Man’ and ‘What I See: A New prescription for Thought’, Don Smith. They discuss issues involving race, social commentary and how role models can shape the actions of young men growing up.

You can reach Don via MySpace:
http://www.myspace.com/prophet2all

The Evelyn Polk Interview

2009-11-17T15:10:00.001-08:00

On the next episode of Mixed Matters…..

Fresh from her appearance at Marcus Books in San Francisco, host Charles Chatmon goes one on one with the author of “It's Heart Work: Being The Village That Raises A Child”, Ms. Evelyn Polk. The talented Ms. E shares her book detailing a twenty-five year span of her professional and personal relationships with youth separated from their biological parents, and her experience as a foster and adoptive parent.

Don’t forget, it’s still National Adoption Awareness Month! :)

Evelyn’s websites:
http://www.talktomse.com/
http://www.forachildsheart.org/

The Paulette Harper Interview

2009-11-09T08:59:00.001-08:00

Inspirational author, workshop facilitator and speaker Paulette Harper discusses her book That was Then, This is Now: This Broken Vessel Restored with host Charles Chatmon. Paulette describes why her book has touched many readers, her accomplishments and upcoming projects. This is an interview you definitely can’t miss!

Paulette’s website: http://pauletteharper.com

California Book Club Summit Interview

2009-09-06T10:03:00.001-07:00

On the next Mixed Matters….

Host Charles Chatmon interviews the founder and producer of the first annual California Book Club Summit, Sigrid Williams about the upcoming literary retreat taking place September 10 –13, in San Ramon, California.

For more information, log on to the California Book Club Summit’s home page: http://www.thecaliforniabookclubsummit.com

The L.A. Banks Interview

2009-08-29T18:14:00.001-07:00

Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams had the pleasure of interviewing L.A. Banks, author of the Vampire Huntress Legend Series at the 2009 Black Book Expo. Leslie Banks will soon be releasing the first installment of her Werewolf series this October.

L.A. Banks website: http://www.vampire-huntress.com

The Carrie L Macon and Michele Waters Interviews

2009-08-21T10:13:00.001-07:00

On the next Mixed Matters…..

It’s a Los Angeles Black Book Expo double feature on the show as host Charles Chatmon interviews two up and coming authors making their mark on the literary scene!

First, Charles discuss with Carrie L Macon, the author of three titles such as Kisses Don't Lie, Just Another Lonely Knight, Give Me Forever about her novels, her inspiration for writing and more.

Then, it’s Michele Waters turn at the interview bat as she talks about her debut novel, Can’t Let Go, along with her observations about the writing business and lends useful advice for the aspiring authors yearning to write their first book.

Summer’s almost over, and the L.A. Black Book Expo’s almost here but there’s always time for cool conversation right here on Mixed Matters.

(Update: Carrie L Macon will not participate in the Expo this Saturday).

Carrie’s webpage: Kisses Don't Lie

Michele’s webpage: MicheleLWaters.com

L.A. Black Book Expo:
http://labbx.com

The Van Waller Interview

2009-08-19T00:25:00.001-07:00

On the next episode of Mixed Matters…..

Overcoming ridicule and challenges early in his life, Van Waller grew up to meet - and defeat - every obstacle that came his way. In this in-depth interview with host Charles Chatmon, this award winning motivational speaker, and the owner of I AM Unlimited shares his experiences and views on the keys to success and how others can reach their full potential.

Van’s website: http://www.vanwaller.com

The Charles Connor Interview

2009-08-09T11:37:00.001-07:00

On the next Mixed Matters…..

He was the original drummer for Little Richard. He also played with the likes of Sam Cooke, Jackie Wilson, and Big Joe Turner. He’s also received numerous accolades in the past and is now an author. Host Charles Chatmon goes one-on-one with legendary entertainer Charles Connor as they discuss his musical career, his early life growing up on the streets of New Orleans, and tips from his new book, Don’t Give Up Your Dreams.

This is one cool conversation you don’t want to miss!

Mr. Connor’s website: http://www.legendarydrummer.tv

The Mick Quinn Interview

2009-07-13T09:31:00.001-07:00

On the next episode of Mixed Matters…

What if you could live with authentic joy?

What if you found out your ego can work for you?

The answers to these questions and more are found when author of The Uncommon Path of Awakening Authentic Joy, Mick Quinn, goes one on one with host Charles Chatmon discussing the book, methods used to live your best and how we can obtain peace with each other.

Cool conversation you don’t want to miss!

http://www.mickquinn.com/

Black Writers on Tour 2009 Interviews

2009-06-18T21:21:00.001-07:00

On the next Mixed Matters………

The 2009 Black Writers on Tour was held as part of the L.A. Black Business Expo inside the L.A. Convention Center. Host Charles Chatmon interviews authors in attendance about their books and upcoming projects. Future interviews will be shown on Empire Beat Magazine.

Authors:

Sheryl Mallory-Johnson – LA Summer: Friends Til' the Blood End
Walter Kingstro – Guilty at Birth
Valerie Reeder-Bey – My Grandma has Aids: Annisha’s Story
Ava Tyler – God’s Paradise
Denise L. Cook – The Oracle
Gloria Franklin – The Book of Manners for Today’s Teens
Stephanie Sprull - 17 Points to Longevity in Show Business
Jennifer Thomas – Daughter of Destiny

The Gloria Malette Interview

2009-04-03T09:53:00.001-07:00

Coming up on the next episode of Mixed Matters…

Host Charles Chatmon goes one on one with best-selling author Gloria Malette discussing her soon to be released book, Sassy, along with her other novels, Living, Breathing Lies and Weeping Willows Dance. Gloria also offers her words of wisdom for aspiring writers and speaks her mind on issues affecting the literary world. It’s a show you don’t want to miss!

The place for Cool Conversation is back! Mixed Matters on North Bay Media Review!

Gloria’s website: http://www.gloriamallette.com

The No Name Show

2009-04-03T08:01:00.001-07:00

Hey Mixed Matters fans!

Chandra Adams has returned and this time she’s brought along two of her good friends back with her to introduce a brand new show on North Bay Media Review!

Joining Chandra is Tanya “Tann” Smith, a talented entertainer from Atlanta who’s a featured background singer and toured with Will Downing; and Katrina Williams, president of the Mind and Soul book club from Atlanta, Georgia. Certainly these ladies have plenty of topics to talk about and wait until you hear what their thoughts of about our new President, his wife and the big change in one of the co-hosts lives!

We could tell you the name of the show, but there isn’t a name for it yet. So if you have a title in mind that you would love to pass on to the ladies, email Chandra at books@adrolitepress.com and the winner will be presented with a lovely prize!

Tune in to hear the show and continue to support North Bay Media Review for the best in cool conversation!

Los Angeles Black Book Expo update 2/19/09

2009-02-19T00:34:00.000-08:00

Hello everyone,

You’ve seen the photos (well a couple of them so far) from our past relationship panel, but here are a few words from the participants after the bookfair along with our Barnes and Noble rep, and from me, Charles L. Chatmon.

Keep checking this site for LABBX updates along with North Bay Media Review and it took some time, but it’s confirmed the actual LABBX website will be updated in March.

Please contact me at info@labbx.com or labbex@gmail.com if you like to become a sponsor, exhibitor, volunteer or whatever capacity you’d like to help us with.

Now here are a few words from our panelists courtesy of Empire Beat Magazine. Take care.

L.A. Black Book Expo Update 1/26/09

2009-01-26T16:54:00.001-08:00

Co-host Charles Chatmon presents a new segment on Mixed Matters; the L.A. Black Book Expo Update. First up, the upcoming relationship forum inside the Barnes and Noble at the Grove at the Farmer's Market in Los Angeles, CA.

http://labbx.blogspot.com

Archive: The Kelly Pace Interview

2009-01-15T00:41:00.000-08:00

Co-host Chandra Adams interviews up and coming author Kelly Pace about her new book, Shades of Grey inside the Lucy Florence Cultural Center on November 2007. The video is produced by Empire Beat Magazine.

Kelly's website: kellypace.com

Archive: The Tim Alexander Interview

2009-01-15T00:36:00.000-08:00

Co-host Chandra Adams goes one on one with the director of the controversial film, "Dairy of a Tired Black Man", Tim Alexander inside the Lucy Florence Cultural Center on November 2007. The video was produced by Empire Beat Magazine.

Archive: The Janks Morton Interview

2009-01-15T00:11:00.000-08:00

Co-host Chandra Adams interviews Janks Morton, the producer of "What Black Men Think" taped at the Lucy Florence Cultural Center in November 2007. The video was produced by Empire Beat Magazine. Enjoy.

The Urban Comedy Experience Interview

2009-01-10T21:33:00.001-08:00

On the next Mixed Matters…

We change the game and come in 2009 blazin’ with underground comedy legend Nelson Martini and Julie Anderson about their experiences in Vallejo, California, their careers and their plans to create a buzz in Los Angeles, their new home. Host Charles Chatmon gets the 411 on the Urban Comedy TV and radio team in the first show of the new year.

“Betcha Never Had A Martini Like This!”

Email: martiniandjules@gmail.com

YouTube: Urban Comedy TV

http://myspace.com/wildwednesdayscomedy
http://myspace.com/julescomedy

African Marketplace 2008

2008-10-12T13:54:00.001-07:00

Mixed Matters goes on the road again to cover the recent African Marketplace in Los Angeles. Host Charles Chatmon interviews authors Julia Thomas, Norman Burton, Duzac, Charles Campbell, West Coast Biz and Malik of Malik’s Books inside the Literary Village. Plus, Charles interviews Youth Village coordinator Nina Womack. It’s a show filled with cool conversation under a hot summer sun.

The Fleetwood Interview

2008-09-08T08:21:00.001-07:00

Charles Chatmon goes one on one with new author and rap artist, community speaker from the Bay Area, Fleetwood about his new book, Hip Hop Tried 2 Kill Me. Fleetwood discusses his life in the world of hip hop, his experiences in prison and how he overcame his setbacks to become a positive force in the community. This is definitely an interview you do not want to miss.

Fleetwood’s website: www.myspace.com/fleetwood189

Chandra Adams on Ozcat Radio

2008-08-08T10:06:00.001-07:00

Mixed Matters co-host finds herself on the other side of the mic in this archive of an interview on Vallejo's Ozcat Radio back in 2006.

The Steven McGill Interview

2008-08-08T10:04:00.003-07:00

Coming up on the next episode of Mixed Matters….

It’s the start of our third season and our best one yet! We’ll have more interviews with up and coming authors on their latest and greatest, literary professions sharing their words of wisdom and artists from all genres. Mixed Matters is definitely the place for cool conversation.

For our first show of the new season, we go back in time to hear Steven McGill, the talented musician of The Steven McGill Project’s ‘Ujima’, interviewed by Charles Chatmon at the Pasadena Flea Market in 2007. As a special treat, you’ll hear selections from Steven’s CD and find out what his future plans are. If you’re into music, you’ll enjoy this archived show of Mixed Matters.

Steven’s website: http://www.myspace.com/thestevenmcgillproject

The Carl Nurick Interview

2008-02-24T23:13:00.001-08:00

Mixed Matters co-host Chandra Adams interviews author Carl Nurick, author of Living to Die, a provocative overview of the world's major religions and their role in suffering and progress in human evolution.

The Joan Davis Interview

2008-02-24T22:34:00.001-08:00

Chandra Adams, co-host and executive producer of Mixed Matters, interviews Joan Davis. Davis is the wife of Stan Davis, the author of 'Long Time No Spree', a collection of poems that will make you smile and laugh as you embark or continue on your personal weight loss journey. Listen to Davis describe in loving detail the wonderful life of Stan Davis -- composer, writer, cinematographer, and photographer.

BlackISOnline Interview

2008-01-16T21:27:00.001-08:00

Kimberly Calvert, the founder of an online newsletter, BlackISOnline, speaks with host Charles Chatmon about herself, her newsletter and other topics worth talking about.

New Image Writers Pt 1

2008-01-13T23:10:00.001-08:00

Mixed Matters co-hosts Chandra Adams and Charles Chatmon join and interview the New Image Writers during the Black Writers Festival October 2007 (Repost)

New Image Writers Pt 2

2008-01-02T22:32:00.001-08:00

Charles Chatmon continues the second part of the Mixed Matters interviews with the New Image Writers during their bus tour at the Black Writers Festival in Los Angeles, October 2007

Mixed Matters Best of 2007 Vol. 1

2007-12-31T21:41:00.001-08:00

Mixed Matters host Charles Chatmon takes the show on the road to Pasadena, California to interview several authors on a sunny summer afternoon!

The Larry Ukali Johnson Redd Interview

2007-11-11T23:08:00.001-08:00

Charles Chatmon discusses loving black women and the San Francisco Bay Area poetry scene with Larry Ukali Johnson Redd, author of Loving Black Women

The Post-LABBE 2007 Interview

2007-09-05T22:32:00.001-07:00

Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams talks with her co-host, Charles Chatmon about his 2007 Los Angeles Black Book Expo. Charles takes the reins as Executive Director and authors Lisa Ridgeway and Anna Christian join him in talking about the fun-filled book event and weekend.

The Bernard Henderson Interview

2007-05-31T23:38:00.001-07:00

Host Chandra Adams chats with Bernard Henderson, a bookseller and consultant who has been recommending the cream of the literature crop to his clients and customers for over a decade, grossing over a million dollars in book sales annually.

Henderson has established The B-List, an ‘A-list for black books’. This list, in a similar fashion as the New York Times bestseller list, will highlight African-American literature and help readers identify compelling and significant contributions to a growing body of works.

The Jacqui Smith Interview

2007-05-25T00:00:00.001-07:00

Smith is among the latest authors to arrive on the urban literature scene and she is already making a splash with her book Tennis Shoe Pimp. Listen to her chat with host Charles Chatmon as she talks about how a little marketing innovation can go a long way in reaching her audience. Click play below to listen.

The Jerry Sampson Interview

2007-04-15T22:12:00.001-07:00

Mixed Matters co-host Charles Chatmon interviews Jerry Sampson, founder of The Rock Magazine

The Anna Christian Interview

2007-03-28T22:37:00.001-07:00

Charles Chatmon chats with Anna Christian, the author of Mrs. Griffin Is Missing and Meet It Greet It and Defeat It: The Biography of Frances E. Williams, Actress/Activist as she talks about her inspiration and her journey as an author and educator.

The Nina Corbett Interview

2007-02-20T20:11:00.001-08:00

Debut author Nina Corbett chats with Charles Chatmon about her novel Standing In The Shadows Of Love, a story that takes readers deep inside the lives and loves of an irresistible pair of intelligent, beautiful women in this delightfully plotted novel that offers a thoroughly engaging, refreshingly unvarnished view of what romance looks like on the other side of thirty.

2007-02-18T23:06:00.000-08:00

Mixed Matters co-host Charles Chatmon talks about two upcoming events with Chandra Adams

2007-01-20T00:57:00.000-08:00

Tova talks about her debut novel Lady B. Moore with Mixed Matters host Charles Chatmon. Click play to listen.

2006-12-05T21:43:00.000-08:00

Why Do Black People Love Fried Chicken? This age-old stereotype, along with many other questions that African-Americans face regarding their lifestyle, culture and habits is taken on by none other than Your Black Friend. Your Black Friend, also known as Nashieqa Washington, talks about her book Why Do Black People Love Fried Chicken? with fellow author and Mixed Matters host Charles Chatmon. Also available for download from iTunes.

2006-11-07T22:51:00.000-08:00

You Belong To Me is romantic suspense at its best. This debut novel from Patricia Sargeant involves a reunion between a divorced couple in a race to unmask a serial killer. Host Charles Chatmon discusses the novel and the business of getting published with Sargeant.

2006-11-07T17:15:00.000-08:00

Terror at the Terminals by George Afara will make you wonder, is it possible that the soul, the spirit or ghost of a dead person might actually be visibly present among the living, possibly even manifesting some sort of paranormal abilities? Afara discusses his book and upcoming projects with Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams

2006-10-28T00:23:00.000-07:00

Chicken Soup for the African American Woman’s Soul contributors with Charles Chatmon onsite at Smiley’s Books in Carson City. Charles interviews a few of the authors who contributed to the book: Sheila Spencer, Linda Coleman-Willis, Berthena Kemp and Traci Clausell-Alexander. Pamela Pollard, co-owner of Smiley’s Bookstore, is also on hand to round out the interview.

2006-10-18T22:45:00.000-07:00

Bay Area poet Tureeda shares her poetry and inspiration with host Chandra Adams. This former nurse has recited her poetry for Mayor Dianne Feinstein and imparts knowledge across many of our area's learning institutions with her poetry instruction and insights into current affairs. Click play below to listen.

2006-10-09T22:54:00.000-07:00

Charles Chatmon makes the rounds at The Los Angeles Black Business Expo 2006 on September 25th and interviews several authors including Pearl Jr., J. Duval, and several authors published by Milligan Books

2006-09-27T00:55:00.000-07:00

Mixed Matters host Charles Chatmon talks with Lee Ann Butler-Owens about Lullalee Publications and Mom's Choice Awards. Click play below to listen!

2006-09-19T22:47:00.000-07:00

Alfonzo Tucker, the author of Noesis, talks about his book with host Chandra Adams. Alfonzo Tucker offers his autobiography as inspiration as he succeeds in life against extremely difficult beginnings. Click play below to listen.

2006-09-12T20:51:00.000-07:00

Host Charles Chatmon makes his debut on Mixed Matters with poet K.D. Greene as she discusses her books 'Too Much Like Right' and 'Too Much Like Right 2'. Click play below to listen.

2006-09-08T10:04:00.000-07:00

Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams chats with The Boston Book Bazaar founder and novelist Nishawnda Ellis about her two novels -- Snowed A Lesson In Love and Wives and Girlfriends. Click play below to listen.

2006-08-22T20:34:00.000-07:00

Marcus Harris recites poetry and talks about his book, Songs In Search Of A Voice, and his community work with The Lady Oya Foundation with host Chandra Adams. Click Play below to listen

2006-08-13T23:08:00.000-07:00

Charles Chatmon, The Literary World's Author of the Month (July 2006), author of The Depths of My Soul and The Voices of South Central, talks about his new poetry book A Question of Truth and upcoming novel, It's All About Fate with Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams

2006-07-28T00:05:00.000-07:00

2003 Telly Award winning poet, rapper and vocalist TheVoice chats with Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams and talks about her inspiration and the latest with her poetry and music.

2006-07-11T23:39:00.000-07:00

Emanuel Carpenter talks about his writing career and his two books, A Job Ain't Nothing But Work and Where Is The Love with Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams. Click Play below to listen!

2006-06-27T23:28:00.000-07:00

Mind and Soul Alliance Book Club President Katrina Williams talks with Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams about her book club and their favorite authors, book club etiquette and tips on building a successful book club.

2006-06-14T00:03:00.000-07:00

Patrika Vaughn discusses her book 'Everything You Need to Know to Write, Publish and Market Your Book' with Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams. Click play below to listen.

2006-06-13T23:58:00.000-07:00

Lisa Altalida gives practical dating tips to get you off the couch on Friday night and discusses her three books - Dating Bootcamp: Conquering The Dating Obstacle Course, Pocket Idiot's Guide To Getting Girls, and Dating Bootcamp: A Survival Guide For The Millenium Woman - with Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams. Click play below to listen.

2006-05-16T16:49:00.000-07:00

11-Year NFL and CFL football player Anthony Prior talks about his books 'The Slave Side Of Sunday', 'Faith On Forty Yards' and his mission to educate African-American football players with Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams. Click below to listen. Please visit Stone Hold Books

2006-05-02T01:03:00.000-07:00

Author Pamela Daniels discusses her book '101 Things To Do When You Hate Your Job' -- a guide for navigating those undesirable jobs -- with Mixed Matters host Chandra Adams. Visit Pam's website www.jobhatersinc.com

2006-04-19T13:46:00.000-07:00

Dr. Scott Whitaker, a nutrition expert and practitioner, discusses
nutrition, health and his new book MEDISIN with Mixed Matters host
Chandra Adams. Visit Dr. Whitaker's website: Medisin.ownspot.com

2006-04-04T15:54:00.000-07:00

Kim Robinson and host Chandra Adams discuss 'The Roux in the Gumbo', Kim's full-length novel, her inspiration and her life. Visit Kim's website at www.kim-robinson.com

2006-03-21T00:04:00.000-08:00

Levester Williams, author of 'Adventures of Crunchy and Munchy Squirrel Field Nuts' talks with guest host Charles Chatmon about his children's book. Please click play to listen.

2006-03-07T00:36:00.000-08:00

Stephanie Johnson shares the inspiration behind her book '101 Ways for Wives to Satisfy Their Husbands'. This minister discusses her focus on building intimate marital relationships from a biblical perspective with host Chandra Adams. Please visit Stephanie Johnson's website to learn more about her work! Click play below to listen to her interview. www.praisehymnpublishing.com

2006-02-21T00:50:00.000-08:00

Martha Tucker, the author of the highly anticipated 'The Mayor's Wife Wore Sapphires' chats it up with Chandra Adams as they discuss Tucker's book and life as the wife of one of Compton, California's former mayors. For more information about Martha Tucker, visit www.MarthaTucker.com. Please click play to listen.

Some of the music provided is from the PodShow Podsafe Music Network. Check it out at 'music.podshow.com

Please visit my new blog

2006-02-17T22:04:00.000-08:00

Please visit my new blog! You can find my audio blogs here, but my online journal continues at: http://www.northbaywriter.blogspot.com

2006-02-07T00:46:00.000-08:00

Chandra Adams talks with Charles Chatmon about his books 'The Depths
of My Soul' and 'The Voices of South Central'. Charles shares his
insights, advice and poetry. Click play below to listen.

Please visit www.charleslchatmon.com

2006-01-26T22:34:00.000-08:00

Chandra Adams will host a podcast featuring some of the best up and coming authors and poets.

Music: Victor Cajiao and Joe Cristina on Simpatico Music copyright 1995

Can’t Miss What You Never Had

2006-01-19T20:50:00.000-08:00

Can’t Miss What You Never Had

Why do you suppose it’s easier to get things you need when you don’t really need them? You know what I’m talking about. The bank, you can’t get a loan when you really need it. But if you already have some money, the banks just won’t leave you alone. Of course there’s the obvious – if you don’t pay back the loan, they have something to go after. So unfortunately, if all you have is a tin can to your name and a piece of red, polka-dotted cloth tied to a stick with all of your worldly possessions inside, don’t expect too much from your local branch except monthly checking account fees and a good solid kick in the pants when they think you deserve one.

Same goes with celebrities. When I feel like wasting time and those awards shows roll around, I watch the celebs out on the red carpet, most of the women looking simply smashing in their designer gowns. Some say, ‘oh, they just sewed the last stitch on this dress twenty minutes ago’ and others remark ‘I didn’t have a thing to wear, and I rolled up on Versace this morning and they had the perfect dress just sitting there’. I say, yeah, that must be so wonderful. To make it worse, or better, depending on your perspective, the dresses are often donated or given to the actresses. Now, let’s see here, if you are attending an awards show, there’s a good chance you’ve struck gold already somewhere down the line. If that’s the case, you can pretty much afford to buy any dress you want at any time – we’ve established that these are not charity cases. But once again, because these women don’t need these clothes, designers are beating their doors down to get them to wear their designs. Do you see the cruel irony here? I know you do, and I know you know that I do, but it still pains me. Terribly. My high school reunion is coming up soon, and I will need something to wear. I’m sure I can afford just about any one outfit at the local Macy’s. Now let’s think about how slim my chances are of walking out of the store with any freebies. Mmm hmmm.

The final blow with regard to freebies for people that don’t need them are jewels, particularly diamonds. Those same red-carpet-walking women come through with a blinding display of diamonds and other jewels. Jewelers aren’t nearly as generous as the designers. Most of the elaborate jewelry is given on loan, and we’ve even heard cases where stars have been sued for not returning jewelry upon request. Still, less elaborate gifts are given to celebrities, such as diamond earrings, necklaces and other semi-precious and precious stones and metals. Once again, I’m completely aware of the reasons why these things occur – it’s great promotion for the designers and jewelers. The celebrities will most likely continue to patronize them, and it will encourage others who see their favorite stars looking good to find out where they purchased this piece or bought that item. The world of material goods is a strange one indeed, and although I would love to receive some free clothing and jewels, one thing remains true – you can’t miss what you never had.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution
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The World Wide Web and Marketing

2006-01-19T20:15:00.000-08:00

The World Wide Web and Marketing

I recall the first time I got one of my websites up and running. I was so excited, but as I performed routine searches for my website on Google and Yahoo, I realized that I had an uphill battle to get recognized on our internet search engines. Slowly, as I kept adding content, my company name would appear and I would be ecstatic. Surely, however, as other people with the same first name or any other similar attributes would do the same, my site would sink back down to the bottom of the pile.

For a while I started taking my website for granted. I figured I was doing enough business in retail outlets and face to face with clients, so my site didn’t seem quite as important as it once was. In fact, the idea of having an internet store began to seem like quite a bit of a joke. A lot of folks are still opposed to buying products off the internet, so I made the decision to place my attention elsewhere.

Lately, it seems that I have come full circle with regard to the internet and my own websites. I have one more that I acquired in the middle of 2005, which is this blog site. I also realized that, although many individuals are not totally comfortable with making purchases on the internet, they sure do check out what they want at length before they step into the retail outlet to make a purchase. Realizing that, I have known for some time that making my information easily accessible would be key if I want to stand out from the crowd, and it is something that must be attended to on a regular basis.

Now what you can do to rise to the top of the heap will depend a lot on, like just about everything else, how many resources you have available at your disposal. Time and money, to name a couple. If you have access to funds, then you can employ a company who specializes in Search Engine Optimization. They are great at helping a company become more accessible and visible on the web. And if you’re interested in utilizing the web as a marketing tool, then you will definitely want to be found easily. Nothing is more frustrating for a consumer than to scan through pages and pages of Google results to find what he is looking for – and it can definitely make the difference for a company’s sales.

If you don’t have the money, you have to have the time to spread the news around the internet about your website and your product or service offerings. Nesting your link on other websites, listing your website and business information on directories…oh the possibilities are endless, and tiring. Whether you launch a do-it-yourself campaign to get recognized on the internet or hire someone else to do it, the message has become crystal clear. The internet is still an excellent vehicle for marketing and promotion, but being savvy about your plan of attack is crucial. Just remember, it’s going to be a matter of time, or money. Take your pick, but do it soon before you get left behind.

Chandra Adams
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Shades of Retribution
www.AdrolitePress.com
www.ChandraAdams.com

Where Do We Go From Here?

2006-01-19T15:36:00.000-08:00

Where Do We Go From Here?

I’ve been reading in the newspapers that the housing market is beginning to face its inevitable decline. While I could honestly care less, because I think that everybody needs a place to live, it does make me wonder what is safe to invest in these days.

I recall sitting on the sidelines in the 1990’s as far as investing went. My salary out of school was barely enough to help me pay for my student loans along with all of my living expenses, so I listened as my coworkers and some friends bragged and showed mock angst over what do about their investment portfolio mix. I dreamed of the day I would make my fortune investing, but by the time I was in a position to, the face of the stock market changed drastically.

With that said, there’s nothing like a bank account with some cash in it to make me happy. Very little risk, not much of a gamble, but I can sleep at night. No nightmares about losing hundreds of thousands of dollars as one company after another folded around the turn of the century.

I imagine there are so many various ways to invest money now, as long as you are comfortable with the associated risk. Investing in your own business, for instance, is definitely one very rewarding and solid way to build your financial future. Some people make the decision to go at it full time, some actually have no choice but to invest all of their time, money and energy into one, and some choose to invest their time and resources on a part-time basis. You either know or learn about the risk involved, and if you’re good at what you do, you will reap the reward.

Investing in precious metals seems to be another lucrative route to follow. The silver market is on the rise, and the gold market is tried and true. Investing in silver seems natural to me, because I love silver. I have always worn more silver than gold. Someone might think I’m a little strange for sharing this, but in astrology, silver is symbolic of the moon. My name means moon in Sanskrit, and the day I was born is ruled by the moon. Did I mention that there has been a supply deficit of silver for the past several years? Look out Macy’s, I just found another excuse to maraud the jewelry department for yet another sterling silver necklace and earring set. Or maybe I better stop by Tiffany’s and get one of those engraved necklaces.

Well you know how it is with some of us, mention shopping and we’re out of the door. Just wanted to give us all something to think about though, investing ain’t what it used to be, but it’s up to us to make it what we want it to be.

Chandra Adams
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Shades of Retribution
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www.ChandraAdams.com

Saint Valentine

2006-01-19T10:18:00.000-08:00

Saint Valentine

Did you know that there is no clear account on how St. Valentine’s Day came about? It clearly has something to do with Romans, Christians, and depriving someone of something, that’s for sure. As far as vague stories go, one says that Valentine was a priest who secretly married couples after Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers. Valentine was put to death for his deeds. Another story suggests that Valentine was put to death for helping beaten and tortured Christians escape prison, he wrote a letter to the jailor’s daughter and signed it ‘From your Valentine’.

At any rate, Valentine definitely made an impact and here we are, two months after blowing all our cash on gifts, doing it again. At least most expenditures will be focused on a few specific things, such as chocolate, valentines day flowers, and any and all things red and/or pink.

This year I wanted to try to dig up some information on exactly what this saint was about, only to find vague stories about why his legend helps Mastercard and Visa make their yearly sales goals. Although I didn’t find any information that satisfied my curiosity, I will say that I am impressed with one thing. Despite how cruel human beings can be to each other, one thing is certain, and that is that we still find ways to celebrate love.

Don’t you remember when you were in kindergarten and you spent the afternoon cutting hearts out of pink and red construction paper? Then there was the list of your pals that you were going to give one to, but saved the best and biggest heart for that one little cutie pie? Those were the days, I tell you. Love was so uncomplicated, yet so real.

What you could do for your sweetheart (or what your sweetheart would do for you) as you grew older depended on several factors, including the size of your wallet and the depth of your concern for that other person. For some, a simple card and a walk in the park holding hands would do, and for others, nothing short of a romantic dinner, roses, or even a marriage proposal would satisfy. All in all, it’s the effort that counts.

Some couples don’t need tokens, however, to prove their love to each other. They know what they have with each other, and that’s all that matters to them, flowers or no flowers. Now that’s some real love, or some real denial. Either way, Valentine’s Day is here every year to make us face up to what we have or what we are lacking in love. If you find yourself alone this year on February 14th, do not despair. Find a mirror, smile, and decide how you can better care for yourself from that day on – I think Valentine would approve.

Chandra Adams
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Shades of Retribution
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www.ChandraAdams.com

Getting Used To Pets

2006-01-17T22:55:00.000-08:00

Getting Used To Pets

I visited a friend of mine last night and she has the cutest dog. I’m not much of a pet-lover, I must admit. Growing up we only had one pet, and he stayed in the backyard most of the time in his own house. He was a sweet puppy, but as he got older he got considerably excited about everything and I just made the decision to steer clear. Most of my other experiences with dogs include getting chased down the street and when I wasn’t being chased I would be well aware as a youngster that I needed to watch my back around many of the neighborhood dogs or be prepared to possibly lose a chunk of my behind.

As an adult, I can’t say I have fared much better with dogs. I recall attending a baby shower a few years ago and the hostess’ dog spent the entire time jumping all over everyone. He was a large dog, too, so it got to be a bit unbearable. Looking back, I really blame the owner, I mean, it was a baby shower, not Golden Gate Park.

Getting back to my friend’s dog, after a couple of hours of visiting with her and another friend, I noticed that her pet was very quiet and stayed to himself. As soon as I asked about him, his ears perked up and he made his way over to the dining room table. Before I knew it, I started petting him, and when I realized how much he was enjoying the attention, I continued to talk with him and rub his head. Whenever I would stop, he would make every gesture he could think to let me know that he wanted me to continue. When I finally left my friend’s house to return home, I started thinking about how nice it would be to own one of my own, and the thought surprised me a little.

After spending several years feeling threatened by dogs, I had decided that if I ever owned a pet, it would be a cat. Cats seemed clean, and were very discreet and aloof. Sounded like an ideal situation to me, until I was once again visiting a friend and the resident cats (there were three of them, I think) decided that they didn’t know me and that I didn’t belong there. They circled, jumped, and became a lot more aggressive than I ever would have expected from some housecats. Once I found out about the fur balls and scratched up furniture, I decided that I would remain a petless woman.

I have come full circle with regard to dogs. I’m still not totally convinced that I’m ready to take care of one, but I’ll tell you, they are a heck of a lot more fun than cats. They love to be around you, can be helpful, and will even protect you if the need arose. What more can you ask for in a pet? As far as dressing them up in capes and hats and furs and all that junk, you can keep it, but Pet ID Tags will work and you can get as creative as you want with those without getting weird about it. It feels good to be a little more tolerant of dogs, and it helps me understand people who have formed strong attachments to theirs as well. Who would have thought one cute little fluffy dog could make the world seem a little better?

Chandra Adams
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Shades of Retribution
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www.ChandraAdams.com

Rising Health Care Costs Part 2

2006-01-17T22:31:00.000-08:00

Rising Health Care Costs Part 2

According to Eurweb.com, Angela Bofill, at the age of 51 has suffered a stroke. To make matters worse, she does not have health insurance.

Just to give a little background on Ms. Bofill for those who may not be familiar with her, she is a jazz vocalist who made her debut in the late 1970’s. Some of her bigger hits include ‘This Time I’ll Be Sweeter’ and ‘I Try’ which was remade by Will Downing.

I became a fan of hers after over a decade of wishing I didn’t have to listen to her day in and day out. One of my older sisters played her music over and over and I just really couldn’t stand hearing her voice. Then, I think it was in 1992, I attended The Long Beach Jazz Festival where she was part of the lineup. Let me tell you, hearing someone sing live can really change your mind about the quality of their voice and their music. Ever since that festival, I have loved her songs and am saddened to hear of her illness. Unfortunately she is now paralyzed on one side and her friends are donating money and a benefit concert to help her cover those astronomical bills she will undoubtedly face.

I really hate to hear that one our great artists is suffering in such a manner. I am unsure of her financial situation and why she would not have health insurance for herself, but it is not doubt a shame that anyone in this country should have to go without. That may sound idealistic to some, but the reality of the situation is that this is the richest country in the world. I am very proud to be an American and I wouldn’t want to live anywhere else in this world, but let’s face some facts – the quality of life here appears to be diminishing and I point to the absence of health care for many people as a determining factor of this condition.

Sure, after I turned twenty-three I could no longer be included on my parent’s health plan so I went without for a while. When I was in graduate school, I had to go forego health insurance. At some point in many of our lives, we have to sacrifice and do without it for any number of reasons. But just because someone doesn’t have it, it shouldn’t mean that they might face financial ruin should he or she become ill.

My individual health plan is currently eating me alive, but I am gratefully insured. Thankfully, Angela Bofill has a number of friends who are apparently able to stage a benefit concert to help her with her needs. What’s happening to all of those people who won’t see proceeds from a benefit concert when they fall on hard times? It gives us all something to think about with our own situations and those of our neighbors. Our health in many ways is all we have, and our society must find better and more creative ways to assist all members in protecting it and that of their loved ones.

Chandra Adams
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Shades of Retribution
www.AdrolitePress.com
www.ChandraAdams.com

The Pain of Rising Health Care Costs

2006-01-15T13:14:00.000-08:00

The Pain of Rising Health Care Costs

My individual health plan went up another $47 per month. Every week or so, I hear on the news that health care costs are going to rise and it is affecting more and more people. Here in California, one in six people are uninsured, which is higher than the national average.
There’s also the fact that I have to dish out $25 every time I visit my doctor, plus a $250 deductible on prescriptions. And it turns out that we sometimes as patients and consumers don’t know exactly if our medications are helping or hurting. Vioxx, the painkiller, turns out to be just a killer for some, since it doubles the risk of blood clots, heart attacks and strokes in those who take it, as any vioxx attorney could tell you.
If all of these additional costs sounds excessive, it is because they are. I am self-employed, and my biggest expense next to marketing is health care. Luckily for me I don’t have any significant health problems, nor do I have children at the present time. I can’t imagine the cost of health care for large families, and indeed it is easy to see why so many are going without.
Children should be guaranteed access to quality healthcare until they reach 18 years of age. Adults should be able to pay based on their income. That sounds like a fair distribution to me. I know it is easier to believe that everyone has to fend for himself or herself, but the fact of the matter is that if one of us loses, all of us lose.
Now I can cut back on a few movies and cd’s to meet my higher health plan cost – it will probably help me focus on getting fitter and more healthy anyway. But my heart goes out to those unable to afford good care, and I hope that our decision-makers can start to make the necessary reforms to fit the reality of those people with low incomes.

Chandra Adams
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Shades of Retribution
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www.ChandraAdams.com

The Scorned Bachelorette in Paris

2006-01-12T19:14:00.000-08:00

The Scorned Bachelorette in Paris

The other night I was talking to a good friend of mine who had just moved to North Carolina. We talk as if we still live only half an hour away from each other, so as I’m walking in the door, she is in the middle of watching The Bachelor: Paris. Well, more like the end, where apparently one of the bachelorettes got more than just a little irritated that she wasn’t invited back for the next round. That is one show I have refused to watch, but I’ll tell you, after what my friend described, I just had to check it out.

So I sat through the show – what a catch the new bachelor is for any young lady looking for love! He’s a doctor, wears that kind of smirk that lets you know that he KNOWS he looks good, and overall, seems like a decent human being. I mean, they even got one of his patients to explain how he saved her life after a heart attack, and she worked really very hard to sound sincere. They hugged after a staged check-up in his office and everything. Would you hug your doctor? And if he or she hugged you, would you consider suing them for sexual harassment? Oh, calm down I’m just joking around.

Anyhow, Allie G. was her name, and she really showed out. After Travis made his choices, she confronted him and questioned whether he found her attractive. I thought she was going to jump up and bite his ear off at any given moment and chew it while she demanded answers. Excuse me, sweetheart, have you ever heard of losing gracefully? And how about not looking so desperate in front of millions of people? She went on to mention to a couple of the other contestants that her eggs were rotting as she moaned and groaned about the rejection. Yuck. What an image, huh? I’m sure she still can’t figure out why Travis didn’t want to see her again.

If her behavior were any indication of things to come, I’d say that this is going to be a fight to the death for the remaining contestants. A good-looking doctor husband is what every little girl dreams of for herself and Barbie, and what just about every woman wishes for at some point in her life when she is looking for that special guy. Add to the mix some rapidly spoiling eggs, and oh, what a pathetic scene we have before us. Ms. G is obviously an accomplished woman and considered by most standards attractive. Either her family is pressuring her mercilessly to get hitched, or she has some screws loose. Which leads us to the question of why anyone would want their search for a mate televised. It would be a great move if you’re looking to break into modeling, acting, or you need some serious PR for your business venture or career. I’m not necessarily judging though – hey, whatever floats your boat, you know? But if you’re so serious about it that it warrants behaving like you need to be on medication, I’d say a safe bet would be to take it off-camera.

The good thing about it is that I don’t need to tune in next week, because she won’t be there to make a scene. I have enough reality shows to watch, and since American Idol is coming back, I have to devote the free time I have to watching that. Allie G., I hope you live this one down and really just kind of calm down.

Chandra Adams
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www.ChandraAdams.com

Richard Pryor: 1940-2005

2005-12-10T20:25:00.000-08:00

Richard Pryor: 1940-2005

I remember eyeing my father’s record collection from time to time when I was growing up, wishing I could just get a hold of one of his Richard Pryor recordings so I could hear what Pryor had to say. That obsession with the forbidden continued through adolescence, and probably ended around the time I went to college and became more concerned about Eddie Murphy. Eddie was funny, chocolate brown, and hip as could be. That stuff my folks never let me listen to, I figured was too old school for me to be worried about anyway.
Fast forward about ten years or so, when I was finally able to afford cable television without having to worry about it getting cut off all the time. Anyone who grew up with cable television probably took a lot of what was on it for granted, but for me it was a chance to do some catching up on everything popular since the early seventies. Yes, it’s sad, but true. My parents did my brain a whole lot of good protecting me from many of the evils of popular entertainment, but boy, was my social situation awkward from time to time.
I remember scanning the cable lineup and I stopped dead in my tracks when I saw a listing for Richard Pryor Live on the Sunset Strip. It was as if several of life’s questions were going to finally be answered as I settled down and waited for the curse-fest to begin. As I began watching and listening, I chuckled here and there, having already heard a few of the jokes regurgitated by various people over the years, and already immune to the concentration of profanity packed into every sentence. I began to notice something happen as Richard Pryor continued on with his routine. My chuckles turned into outright laughter, and by the time the show was over, I had tears streaming down my face from all of the laughs he drew out of me.
Now if you have ever tried to endure BET’s Comicview, you probably have figured out that anybody can have a filthy mouth. And with that filthy mouth, any man or woman can tell you about any number of awkward sexual encounters and draw a laugh or two. But I bet if you watch an entire season of Comicview, you will not find one comedian on there who could make you laugh about a conversation with a crab like Richard Pryor could. And not just make you laugh, but have you sit there and actually see how it could have really happened.
I never understood up to that point how anyone could actually refer to him as a genius. I thought, how much actually goes into being really funny anyway? Growing up watching Flip Wilson—he had his Geraldine and Here Comes the Judge skits. Then fast forward to SNL with Eddie Murphy, more skits until he went to stand up like Pryor. Martin Lawrence, skits, then stand up. All very funny, but in comparison, Richard Pryor still stood head and shoulders above them all, skit or stand up.
His genius showed in the way he could really make you think. Sure, there’s only so many times any of us want to hear the ‘N’ word, I mean, even he got tired of it himself. But at the end of any of his routines, when my stomach muscles were tired and I didn’t think I could laugh anymore, I still had plenty to think about. His main appeal revealed itself in the fact that he wasn’t afraid to say what everyone else was thinking, which was highly unusual when he hadn’t even reached the high point of his career. And even though he made you laugh, you were also acutely aware of his pain. Pain regarding racism, his own life and/or lifestyle, or the woman he just couldn’t manage to get it together with for whatever reason.
The American Heritage Dictionary defines genius as: Extraordinary intellectual and creative power. He made many uncomfortable, but made most of us laugh, think, and change the way we view comedy and life. Sounds like a genius to me. Richard Pryor, December 1, 1940 to December 10, 2005.

What To Do With All the Money I Wish I Had

2005-11-07T22:45:00.000-08:00

What To Do With All the Money I Wish I Had

Do you ever wonder what you would do with that extra $100 in your bank account? That is, if you have it. My extra cash right now amounts to about $4.50, so my options are limited at the moment. But, if I had an extra million or so, what would I do with it? As far as investing it, that is. I used to place my savings in the stock market, and now I’m still scrambling to get the remainder of my cash out before it vanishes into thin air.
Real estate appears to be the hot ticket these days, even though analysts are saying that the bubble is about to burst. I don’t know how relevant that is to those of us in the coastal states, especially California. If you paid a lot for a house, even if it depreciates slightly, you can make up for it over the years if you hold on to it. Like the stock market, you really only lose our on your real estate investment if you sell when prices are on the downswing. Sit tight and ride the wave all the way to the top, even if it takes a few years. And who says a house has to be just an investment anyway? Everybody needs a place to live. A house is meant to be a home. If you’re lucky, or smart, or both, you take care of it and it can keep a little change in your pocket. Mortgage Refinancing is one way to help you settle debts in other areas of your life as well. Sick of that student loan payment, or need a new roof? Refinance, take care of that debt and you’re that much better off than you were before. Being responsible with that equity is important, ask anyone who’s been around for a while.
If you don’t feel quite ready for real estate investments, some people are still utilizing other vehicles to plan for retirement. My grandmother used to hide her money in her mattress, which worked for her, but things have changed since her day. I would like to learn more about the precious metal market, or perhaps return to investing in stocks. I remember a few years ago I worked at a women’s retail store and the company’s stock price was low and generally was performing poorly. My coworkers laughed at me, but I hung in there with my small stock purchases and tripled my money before it was all over with. I went with my gut and it paid off. That’s probably what needs to happen right now with investing. Think about what we like, what we believe in, think twice before following trends. Trends are a lot like jumping in the fast lane on the freeway, when it’s moving everybody is trying to get in it, but then it ends up coming to a complete halt and you get no where. Follow your hunches, change lanes a few times before you get in your own financial groove. If I had a million to invest, I’m still not sure how I would allocate it, but I can tell you I’d get a lake front house for starters somewhere up here in Northern California. It probably wouldn’t make me that much richer but it would be an investment in my lifestyle and options. Isn’t that what it’s all about anyway? Quality of life, where money is only a vehicle.

Chandra Adams
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Shades of Retribution
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Los Angeles Air

2005-11-04T21:39:00.000-08:00

When I visited Los Angeles this past week I was reminded of some of those futuristic movies where the whole city is in chaos, rogues run the place, and the sky is dark. Everything is crumbling, and lawlessness is the order of the day.
In reality, I can’t say that I believe downtown Los Angeles is gorgeous by any measure, so there weren’t any crumbling buildings, and the weather is generally beautiful, at least to the eye.
So every time around the fall I tend to get my little fall allergies, and if I’m unlucky, they turn into bronchitis. Since this year was no exception and I knew that I had a road trip ahead of me, I took every opportunity to rest up for my long trip to the land of the stars. By the time I loaded up my Civic and jumped on highway 5, I was ready for anything Los Angeles had to dish out. Boy was I wrong!
Day 1: I knew I was doomed. I was stuffed up again, stifling a cough, but I gave myself the illusion that I had everything under control, that a little rest would help.
Day 2: The convention center was stuffy and a little too warm, but I found the booth where four other authors would be joining me for the weekend and set up my books and waited for the festivities to begin. The air conditioning kicked in, and I knew that I was going to have problems. I went from being hot to extremely cold, and extremely sleepy. By the end of the day I barely knew my name. One of my fellow authors and I dragged ourselves to our automobiles, and the twelve miles back to the hotel seemed a lot more like a hundred miles on the super-maze highway 110 going south. Head pounding, I carefully laid myself across the bed to eat a Caesar salad from McDonalds. Yes, I was desperate for something to eat. No, it really didn’t get eaten as I realized that my plans for the evening were not going to materialize because everyone else was just as worn as I was and could not pry themselves from their bed either. I took my medication and tried to get better for the next day.
Day 3: My whole body begged for mercy as I showered and dressed as if nothing was wrong. Every cough reminded me of just how sore I had become from coughing the previous day, so I walked around most of the day looking as if I could strangle to death at any given moment. By the middle of the day I started feeling better, and to continue feeling that way, I decided to leave the Los Angeles Black Business Expo early. I hopped in my little car and quickly found the 110 south freeway entrance. It was a nice night, so I rolled both windows down to get some fresh air. Bad move…I started coughing so hard that I couldn’t see where I was going. Luckily the traffic was moving at a crawl so I was able to see the road out of watery strained eyes. I got the impression that I should roll up my windows, and although the coughing didn’t cease, it did ease up a little. Finally I made it back to my room, put on some comfortable clothes and kicked back. It was stuffy in the room, though, so I opened the window for some fresh air…next thing you know I’m practically wallowing around on the floor, trying not to cough my brains out. After a few more moments, I realized that the air was choking me, and choking me bad.
Day 4: I got smart and kept my windows rolled up on the way to the convention center. But by that time, I had grown tired of breathing stale air (what I could actually take in) and quickly returned to my room and shut the door until it was time to take my behind back to the bay area. Oh, and I had so many plans for L.A. I was going to eat at Roscoe’s and go shopping for one of those pink diamond rings I see a lot of people wearing. But this trip did make me realize one thing, that there is a lot of pollution in that city. People complain about it and make jokes about it, but it became all too real for me this time around. So if you are living there and can’t figure out why you’re always sick, you’re probably not alone. And if you visit and can’t figure out what’s wrong with you, try avoid rolling your windows down on the freeway. There’s nothing worse than being in the middle of traffic and you can’t breathe. Overall, I enjoyed my trip, don’t get me wrong. But now, now I know what I’m up against when I head south.

Chandra Adams
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Wearing Watches

2005-10-20T15:13:00.000-07:00

Wearing watches

“…time won’t give me time, but time makes lovers feel, like they’ve got something real. But you and me we know we got nothin’ but time. But time won’t give me time...”

Boy George

Don’t ask me why that song jumped into my head. That was how many ions ago? Perhaps it is because my high school reunion is coming up, and I guess too because Boy George was in the news recently.
At any rate, I realize I haven’t worn a watch since high school either. I have several sitting in my jewelry box, too, that have probably lost their tick by now. Every once in a great while when I find myself in the jewelry section of some department store I’m tempted to buy one. I try to tell myself that designer watches are the way to go, that if I pay enough for a watch I’ll feel compelled to wear it. Then, I think about all of the other pieces of jewelry I’d love to have for half the price and walk right on by the watch section.
Wearing a watch normally has the effect of making me feel nervous and just a little uptight. I’m always looking at it, and if I’m sitting in a boring meeting or a class it just seems to make the time go slower. It’s unbelievable how long five minutes can take to pass if you watch the second had make those five rotations around the little clock on your arm.
I must admit though that a beautiful, well-crafted watch can make a person look like a million bucks. Also, when you need to cut a meeting short or make yourself look ultra-important, there’s no better way of conveying both than a dramatic look at your watch as you make your exit. Everyone looks at their cell phone to figure the time these days, but a watch is still a most useful accessory.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution
www.AdrolitePress.com
www.ChandraAdams.com

Television Doctor

2005-10-19T20:21:00.000-07:00

Television Doctor

‘House’ on Fox I absolutely love, I started watching it after American Idol and just started watching it again. I mean, the show just seems to get better and better every time I watch it. Gregory House is the main character and doctor who cares for patients with unusual diseases. He’s so interesting because he is addicted to prescription painkillers, walks with a limp and a cane, is rude, obnoxious and unbelievably insensitive to everyone around him. Did I mention that he lies to get what he wants much of the time on the show?
Now let’s take a walk on reality’s side. Imagine you’re in the emergency room, nobody can figure out what’s wrong with you, nurses wheel you off while you’re bleeding, gasping for air, blind, giving birth, all of the above, or whatever. In the midst of your pain and general state of confusion, in walks some little sour man who says he’s your doctor. “Do you smoke crack?” He might ask with laser directness. You say no. He smirks, pokes you in the side. “Somebody in here’s a liar.” He shares that declaration with the other doctors and attendants in your intensive care unit room. While you’re getting all huffy about the obvious lack of respect, he goes in for the kill and continues to treat you like the corner store wino. You go into cardiac arrest, or seizure, or something equally as uncomfortable and life threatening. Hours, or days later, after a few more demoralizing visits from the kooky doctor, he determines the cause of your illness, you’re treated, and free to go.
How likely is it that the hospital would receive a visit from one of several malpractice lawyers in your area? I’d say highly likely. On House, though, the doctor manages to slip, slide, and dodge the malpractice bullet every time with a healthy side order of sarcasm. Unfortunately, there may be a few of you out there who are thinking, “Man, all of that happened to me last week.” If so, my heart goes out to you.
Hugh Laurie, who plays Dr. House, does a superb job playing the part. Not only is he deeply conflicted, anti-social and constantly on the edge of being consumed by his addiction, he knows it and just doesn’t care. He’s so convincing with it that when he attacks his subordinates for being caring, sensitive and compassionate toward their patients, I almost start to agree with his criticism.
Overall, I like this show because it is different from most of the other dramas staged in a hospital. Good story lines and exceptional acting can take the implausible and unlikely and make good entertainment, something we need more of these days.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution
www.AdrolitePress.com
www.ChandraAdams.com

Are We In The Last Days?

2005-10-19T19:33:00.000-07:00

Are We In The Last Days?

All these hurricanes, landslides, and earthquakes. The growing pockets of poor and homeless here and abroad. I don’t really know if it is because I’m paying more attention to the evening news – you know, Hurricane Katrina re-ignited my repulsion yet undying curiosity with the doom and destruction served up at five, six and eleven PM. That could very well be the problem.
I remember simpler days, when having to face Debt Consolidation appeared to be the marker for imminent disaster, even if it was just my own personal one. Falling behind in bills after college and before landing the big job is truly no joke.
But back to the gloom and doom of the present day. These relentless hurricanes. Looks like Wilma is getting ready to come in and do her thing. Add to that two children run over and killed by a high speed motorist outside their elementary school, the war still going on, gas prices, the president getting ready to snatch away some of the homeowner tax breaks in the blue states, and well, I think I better call my doctor for some of that anti-depressant medication Americans seem so fond of.
Seriously, though, I attribute my pre-last-days-paranoia to the amount of television I have been consuming. Have you ever turned away from the news and just listened to the way the newscasters talk? Everything, every story starts out in a very serious, hushed tone. As the story builds, more emphasis is placed on certain words, like murder, homicide, theft, home-break-ins, fugitives. Just when you’ve started shaking your head and wondering if the world has gone to hell in a handbasket, they start in on something else equally as dismal. And there’s no break between the stories, it’s just a constant stream of bad news, a mental beat down, there to greet you after a long day at the office, a long commute, and a long evening of trying to get dinner for yourself or your loved ones. Add a truly grisly, frightening story about a serial killer on the loose, and well, you know the rest.
After I watch Lost and Invasion tonight, the television goes off. If we are indeed in the last days, I don’t really want to hear about it from the local news.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution
www.AdrolitePress.com
www.ChandraAdams.com

Recent Book Events

2005-10-10T08:59:00.000-07:00

Recent Book Events

I’m finally getting back into the swing of things when it comes to promoting my book. The nice thing about attending events is that I’m learning more and more about the bay area and even Sacramento. I’m going places that I’ve never been before and that actually gives me a greater appreciation of California and its beauty and variety. Now, I’m not going to lie, having a gps system would have really helped me find the freeway entrance near Arden Mall in Sacramento as I traveled along. Driving along unfamiliar territory in the middle of the day is one thing, but at 11:00 pm sixty miles away from home, it was certainly another, especially when I knew I had just enough gas to make it home.
Friday evening kicked off my book-promotion weekend. Two other authors and I taped a segment on Playervision, (hopefully I spelled that correctly) where we took turns talking about our books for the hip-hop show. I just watched the playback of the show last night, it’s not easy watching yourself on television I have to say. The show was in Mountain View, which is a 70 mile, Carquinez Bridge, Bay Bridge crossing two hour commute from where I stay.
The next day, I drove to Sacramento to meet my fellow authors at Master Barber. There we signed a few books, then ate ourselves into oblivion next door at the Cobbler Inn Soul Food Restaurant. Wish we had more restaurants like that around here in Vallejo, but that’s another story. From there we moved on to The Plantation Restaurant, which is a very nice restaurant, bar and club set up on two floors. With catered chicken wings and cornbread, us authors sat at the signing table reminiscing on Prince, The Time, and Michael Jackson between talking to customers and telling them about our books.
I went solo yesterday to the Northern California Independent Booksellers Association’s 2005 Trade Show. I talked to some interesting people and handed out information about my book. Overall a great and busy weekend, and can’t wait for the next one.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution
www.AdrolitePress.com
www.ChandraAdams.com

Food, Balance and Obesity

2005-09-16T01:04:00.000-07:00

Food, Balance and Obesity

Do you ever wonder how so many people in this nation have become so overweight? It seems like, in perhaps the last five years or so, we’ve just blown up. One would think that it would be people with the most resources that are fat – you know, gluttony. It’s actually the poor people, mainly, and the many individuals who commute, have desk jobs, families. It really boggles my mind sometimes when I really think about how much time I spend sitting in a day. At least two hours in my automobile, around nine hours at work. I have to sit to eat breakfast, lunch and dinner, so that’s another couple of hours. So, even when I get around to it, that hour a day of exercise does very little toward advancing my fitness level. At least not the level of fitness I would like to achieve. For instance, if I had to run for my life right now, I’d like to have a shot at it. I’m afraid, though, at this point, I could make it a couple of blocks, and then collapse.
Then there’s the diet factor. Doctors say that consumption of dairy products such as yogurt can help aid weight loss. I tried loading up on the yogurt, and you know what? I just can’t eat it like I could when I was a kid. Lactose Intolerance is real, alive and well. I’m sure yogurt is great for you, but who wants to run around feeling yucky all the time? Milk is out of the question too (it’s funny though how ice cream doesn’t seem to affect me at all).
I’m fighting the good fight. At this point, my battle with the bulge has become more psychological, where I notice that I eat poorly when I feel added stress in my daily life. I am increasing my intake of fruits and vegetables and do my best to ignore those pesticide warnings. I don’t understand how we went wrong with the food we eat now, either. I love tuna, but you know what? I’m afraid to touch the stuff. I don’t want to find out that I get enough protein in my diet but I suffer from mercury poisoning. I’ve reintroduced small amounts of beef into my diet, but what else am I getting with it? I probably sound more than a little paranoid, but I can’t help but wonder about the quality of food available.
Many of our food and diet woes point to one essential issue, and that is the issue of balance. Most of us, in an effort to just make ends meet, don’t lead balanced lives. Realistically, I don’t expect to have it all. I am working full-time, growing in a writing career, and more frequently than not, I haven’t placed my physical fitness at the top of my list. I can take responsibility for that much, and I’m making changes to re-establish my physical fitness. Most, if not all of us are doing the best we can in our own lives, but as I write this and reflect on my daily life, I know that achieving a balanced life will be my ultimate goal. Obesity and being over-weight in general (all other health factors being equal) can be a sign that something in one’s life is out of balance. Lack of funds, lack of love, lack of motivation, lack of anything essential to our mental, spiritual, or emotional well-being is often the culprit.
Well, I have ranted enough for one day. I hope this writing inspires someone to release the remote control, get off the couch and go for a walk.

Compassion and Indifference

2005-09-07T01:03:00.000-07:00

Compassion and Indifference

As I was waiting in line at the post office today, I considered the best way to Send Flowers to a friend of mine for a promotion well deserved. After paying for postage, though, I quickly forgot about the flowers and returned home to watch today’s Oprah show.
Nothing on the show surprised me, really. Viewers received a very graphic display of what happens to one’s body after you’ve been left to die by the roadside. Oprah’s team interviewed people walking the streets, stunned and dazed, talking of horrific days in the Superdome. The full impact had yet to hit them, and I could see how well a state of shock can serve to protect a human being’s emotions before total reality sets in.
In various social settings over the past few days, I have listened to varying reactions to the hurricane tragedy. The feeling of anger and helplessness was most common, but there were a few who seemed indifferent. Alright, they were extremely indifferent and actually very insensitive to the plight of those caught in the devastation. One pledged ten dollars to the Red Cross (the cost of gas had drained her wallet), the other insisted that the leaders of this country were doing the best they could in this situation and just didn’t understand the anger directed toward them.
I’ll be painfully honest. I know the devastation and pain of losing loved ones. I know what it’s like to have to live without electricity. I know what it’s like to be in direct danger of losing my home. I know what it’s like to be broke and not have food in the refrigerator or cupboards. I know what it’s like to have to get around in extreme heat without a car. I know what it’s like to be far from home, trying to make it.
I’ve had those experiences in isolated cases and I could never imagine what it would be like to suffer these things simultaneously. And still, what I have experienced is nothing compared to what many will emerge to tell in the days and years to come.
The insensitivity of some and the excuses from those we hope to be able to turn to in grave times of trouble such as these are beyond comprehension. How can a person in this country not care about the extent to which their fellow Americans are suffering? Perhaps he doesn’t truly view the people caught in the floods and hurricane as real Americans? How can a leader make excuses for dragging her feet when her fellow human being, a natural disaster survivor, is being further victimized by uncontrolled criminals? How does one authority figure decide that the little babies that have nothing to drink and must sleep alongside feces and corpses can wait for days on end for help? If you decide saving another’s life isn’t worth more than ten dollars, how much more important will someone decide your life is in your time of need?
Thankfully, the relief efforts are finally underway in a manner appropriate for the situation. Many people, many citizens have stepped up and offered whatever they had to these survivors. Thank goodness for compassion and generosity. True leaders have emerged to give their time and dedicate their lives to the survivors. I believe that the survivors will emerge stronger than ever. I hope, however idealistic the sentiment may be, that we all learn to treat each other better and place higher value on compassion. There’s a strong possibility that some deal with the suffering of others by downplaying it, or doing nothing at all. It’s likely that others just don’t care, because they feel that the problem doesn’t affect them. Whatever the case, this country has a lot of work to do and a lot of hearts to mend.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution
www.AdrolitePress.com
www.ChandraAdams.com

Car Insurance

2005-08-11T23:04:00.000-07:00

Car Insurance

Oh, the things we take for granted.

You never realize how much some object, person, or place defines and enables you until you lose it.
I always thought it despicable when someone refers to his car as ‘My Baby’ or gives it a name. Automobiles exist to get you from point A to point B. When I drove a clunker, I laughed at people who spent thousands of dollars on an automobile. Even though my car would cut off at stoplights and was in general a mechanic’s dream come true, I was proud. It got me where I needed to go, and it was paid off.
When I moved across the country to return to my hometown, I had to kiss said clunker good-bye. I couldn’t justify moving that piece of junk with my other valuables, after all, so the moving company workers were too happy to take it off my hands for a couple hundred dollars.
Purchasing a new automobile for the first time was such an unusual experience. My father came with me, and what started out as an innocent trip to look at various models turned into a negotiating war with one unsuspecting automobile salesman. Several hours later, I walked away with a fully loaded automobile at the price my father deemed acceptable.
I cared for and doted on my car. Every bird in the neighborhood became my enemy and as far as I was concerned no one could wash my car better than I could. But truly, I received the shock of my life when I had to acquire auto insurance. When I owned my little beat up runaround car, I paid liability insurance only and we’re not talking a whole lot of money. As I inquired about my new, overly inflated quotes, I was told that many factors were taken into consideration, such as high incidence of theft for my particular make and model, where I resided, and the amount of miles I drive. The amount of miles I drive? How unfair can it get? The Bay Area once included a few cities surrounding the San Francisco Bay. Now even Sacramento, which is one hundred miles away, is somehow considered a part of the ‘Greater Bay Area’. Everyone commutes around here, if you want to work.
My complaints about my auto insurance have continued on for years. After I paid off my car, the rate went down a smidgen. Just as I was getting ready to lower my limits, I was sort of car-jacked-slash-robbed of my automobile. Nothing prepared me for that experience as I realized that I wouldn’t easily make my thirty-plus mile commute to work the next day, and that yes, ‘My Baby’ was gone. Some fool had her, and I was probably never going to see her again.
Luckily my neighbor knew what to do, had witnessed the whole incident and managed to calm me down enough to ask if I had comprehensive coverage. Not seeing what that had to do with how panicked I was about losing my automobile, she made me realize that I wasn’t about to face as big of a financial blow as I had initially expected. I was able to rent a car until mine was recovered or replaced and my insurance covered it. Luckily for me my car was recovered without a scratch, but I had to retrieve it from a very expensive impound – which will also be covered by my auto insurance policy.
I will be the first to admit it now – I love my car. Not like I love the people close to me, no. But keeping it insured and maintained has made all the difference in the world. Facing the loss of it made me appreciate it, and I’ve also finally realized the value of insurance. Some things are easily replaced, some are not. But having options will certainly soften the blow in hard times.

Never Too Much

2005-07-07T23:02:00.000-07:00

Never Too Much

Where were you when you first heard these lyrics?

Can’t fool myself
Don’t want nobody else to ever love me

Luther’s Never Too Much album was one of the first records I had ever purchased in high school, and as I look back on my collection of vinyl, his records remained the only ones I ever purchased. Okay, I did cop one by GQ, but nothing compared to my man Luther.

You are my shining star,
My guiding light
My love fantasy

As a teenager sheltered from the dating world until my senior prom, I resolved to pass my idle time away in our family den with Mr. Vandross’ lush vocals promising a future of a love divine. He was my authority on amore, my chubby Cupid.

There’s not a minute, hour,
Day or night
That I don’t love you

Since then I have stepped confidently into every romance with his songs in my heart and on my mind, right, wrong, or indifferent. At various points along the way real life affairs didn’t mesh as neatly with his lyrics as I would have wished, but listening to him croon still made everything alright.

You’re at the top of my list
‘Cause I’m always thinking of you

The man had one of those voices that could put you in a good mood, make you fall in love, fall out of love, or do just about anything and everything to get it right. His sense of timing, flair for the dramatic and sophistication could not only be heard in his lyrics but seen in his performances. His background singers dressed in gowns rivaled only by queens, with all the moves that only the Supremes could match. When that silky voice touched down on the microphone and gushed out over the speakers, you knew you were witnessing something special, listening to something truly magnificent.

…You must have known that I had feelings deep enough to swim in

I had just returned from lunch when a coworker mentioned his passing. My thoughts lingered on one of his last appearances on Oprah. He was learning to walk, talk, and spell again. I doubted whether he would perform again, but I imagined a comeback CD where he would tell how he rediscovered life and remind us of how special it is to be loved.

That’s when you opened up your heart
And told me to come in
Oh my love
A thousand kisses from you is
Never too much

Every time I think of him, Never Too Much and every song on that album come to mind because for me it is not only a masterpiece but just the tip of the iceberg of what he brought to this world. I hope he succeeded beyond his wildest dreams because he had immeasurable talent. He wrote for other artists such as Aretha Franklin (Jump To It). If you haven’t heard Jump To It in its entirety, you need to hurry up and hear it! Girl, I got to go…..

Mostly, he was just my hero. Businessman, producer, songwriter, poet, human.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution

www.AdrolitePress.com
www.ChandraAdams.com

Trapped In The Dark

2005-06-28T02:03:00.000-07:00
Trapped in the Dark

With the force of a pit bull’s toothy grip on some poor soul’s behind, all sorts of images and reports of the DL (Down Low) syndrome seem to have emerged into both popular music and stark reality. A friend of mine recently sent me a link to R. Kelly’s ‘Trapped in the Closet’ video, part 2. You know the one, where the scorned pastor husband reveals he has a secret he’s been itching to tell too. His mystery woman, his secret lover, is actually a man. Very, very interesting and highly dramatic.

That was enough DL drama for one day, I thought, and I think many would agree. Little did I know that some more would show up in the newspaper, so I innocently perused the online version of the San Francisco Chronicle to find that Terry McMillan (Disappearing Acts, Waiting to Exhale, How Stella Got Her Groove Back) is divorcing her current husband because he’s now gay.

http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/chronicle/archive/2005/06/26/BAGTQDF4S01.DTL

My jaw dropped. Any residual grogginess from my late Sunday morning sleep-in disappeared as I shared the news with another friend on my free long-distance anytime minutes. I relayed the news, piece by piece as I gathered it myself. Jonathan Plummer, 30, met McMillan when he was a ‘20-year-old kid’ from Jamaica. Within a time span of six or so years of marriage, he had arrived at the conclusion that he is gay.

Is that like figuring out that you don’t like peanut butter, or you prefer butter over margarine? Is it reversible? Like, could he wake up one day and decide that he’s heterosexual again? Is it interchangeable? Could he just declare that he’s bisexual, and jut keep everyone guessing? Oh it’s so confusing.

Truly, this man’s sexuality is unremarkable except he really screwed up things up for his soon to be ex-wife. For one thing, he doesn’t understand her ire, and that might be where the age difference comes into play. Reportedly he’s upset that she kicked him out of the house and called him a few derogatory names. He’s lucky that he didn’t find himself actually buried under the house, as far as I can see. Now there’s hardly any doubt that marrying someone twenty three years your junior would include a great deal of risk. Let’s see, when you’re 53, he 30, when you’re 73, he’s 50, when you’re 93, he’s 70. When you’re 103 he’s 80. You can probably see where I’m going with this. When you’re well into your hundredth box of Depends, he’s still jogging around the block.

But if you really want to mess a woman up rope-a-dope style, I mean if you’re really want to leave her a angry, frothing, humiliated mess, conveniently drop the gay bomb when she complains about you hanging out with that special male buddy too much. Don’t forget to act like you don’t understand what the big deal is, after all. She’ll be defenseless, then you can easily go in for the kill. Accuse her of trying to destroy you with homophobic epithets and demand that you get royalties for a story based loosely on your love life with her. Uh, sweetie, when you took that $62,000 from her account without her knowledge, you don’t count that as royalties? Just curious.

When I reflect on the ‘Trapped In The Closet’ video part 2, okay, we see how old R. is stuck in the clothes closet, and you can say okay, crazy pastor husband had been metaphorically trapped in the closet too, right? What about being trapped in the dark, which is the state a lot of women find themselves in when their mate reveals their true selves in some hurtful way. Everyday people face the demise of their love relationships and simply grow apart. It just seems that sometimes people forget to leave the other with at least a sense of dignity, and in this case a sense of personal well-being, sanity and health. I hope Ms. McMillan can emerge from this and find herself in a better place.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution
http://www.AdrolitePress.com
http://www.ChandraAdams.com

The Trouble With Pit Bulls

2005-06-10T01:44:00.000-07:00

The Trouble With Pit Bulls

In some ways I tend to admire folks who love their pets as they would children. I must admit though, that I love animals most when I am positioned at a healthy distance, with the exception of small, cute dogs. I hope to own a bison frise one day or one similar calm breed of dog that could fit neatly in my arms. I actually used to be a cat lover until I realized that they have few qualms about scratching one’s eyes out if they feel cornered or threatened in some way.

Whether I’m in the minority or majority with my views on animals and pets, I’m just glad that there are people out there who genuinely care for them because animals should be treated with respect. The way a human being treats an animal is a good indicator of how they will eventually treat the people around them. Protection and respect for the lives of animals is extremely important in social and environmental terms.

Last Friday night I was driving down Lincoln in San Francisco and was surprised to see several ribbons of yellow police tape flapping in the wind as it stuck to two or three tall lampposts. A few police cars and a fire engine lined the streets for a couple of blocks and the driver of a truck in front of me almost ran up on the center divider as he tried to figure out what was going on. He wasn’t alone in his curiosity – I slowed down to try to catch a glimpse of bystander’s faces but it was just too dark. I was able to contain the questions in my mind until I sat down at my computer hours later.

His name was Nicholas Scott Faibish and he was twelve years old when his family’s two eighty-pound pit bulls, Rex and Ella, mauled him to death in the family’s home. The boy had been left alone with the animals and police have yet to determine what triggered the violent attack.

http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2005/06/04/MNGCUD3O661.DTL&hw=pit+bull&sn=005&sc=703

Many of the neighbors described the two dogs as friendly and good-natured. Only a couple of people in the neighborhood had noticed signs of aggression. And so the city is similarly divided – many fear that pit bulls will be discriminated against from this point on, and others can’t figure out what there is to argue about – they perceive the dogs as a threat and feel that ownership of them should be restricted. I consider myself to be a member of the latter group, and I’ll tell you exactly why.

In looking up the definition of pit bull, I found two entries. The first entry was ‘American Staffordshire terrier’ which was further described as ‘A strong muscular terrier of an American breed with powerful jaws, a broad skull, and short hair, originally developed for dog fighting’. The second entry was considered slang but stated ‘One who behaves in a markedly aggressive or ruthless manner’. To be fair, I also utilized the same reference to look up descriptions of Doberman Pinscher, German Shepherd, Rottweiler and even Chihuahua. No where, and I do mean no where in the descriptions of these breeds did I find words or phrases such as ‘powerful jaws’, ‘dog fighting’, ‘markedly aggressive’, or ‘ruthless’. These are descriptions typically reserved for wildlife such as sharks, alligators, lions and tigers.

San Francisco Bay Area residents are known for their fondness of pets. Dogs can be found in abundance on the streets of San Francisco and Berkeley, and I know at least two people personally who own at least eight or nine cats and one or two dogs. I have seen a man relaxing at a street café with a parrot on his shoulder, another with a rabbit on a leash, and it wasn’t unusual when I was in high school for one of my classmates to bring her pet snake to class. As I bring to mind images of Noah’s Ark, I can’t over-emphasize the magnitude of the problem with pit bulls. Their very name engenders fear in many, and their presence in our neighborhood too often produces violence and death for our children. Four years ago Shawn Jones of Richmond, California, was attacked by three pit bulls in which he lost his ears and has since endured several painful surgeries. He was only ten years old at the time of the attack and has just returned to school and a public life only about a year ago. JaQuan Rice Jr., an eleven year old from Concord, California had his arms and legs chewed by two pit bulls this past March. If these acts of violence don’t classify pit bulls as wild animals, I suppose I’m not sure what a wild animal is exactly.

I’m fully aware that it is difficult to single out a breed of dog, because other breeds of dogs are more than capable of attacking a human being under the right conditions. I was watering plants on my porch recently when one of the neighborhood kids jumped over my next-door neighbor’s porch railing and onto mine. I thought he was playing with his friends when it turned out that the Rottweiler from across the street was about to help himself to a chunk of the poor boy. Luckily the owner rescued him, but if he hadn’t me and the boy would have been faced with a vicious dog to deal with.

I heard a statistic recently that out of 355 dog attacks in the past year here, around fifty percent of them were by pit bulls. Need I say more? But I guess it will take a few more tragedies before people wake up.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution
www.AdrolitePress.com
www.ChandraAdams.com

Box Office Blues

2005-06-03T02:07:00.000-07:00

Box Office Blues

Movie theaters around the country are suffering a decline in moviegoers, it seems. I, for one, would much rather wait a month or two for some marginal movie to come out on DVD. That way, I don’t feel so bad about dishing out a little less than four dollars over a potentially very disappointing flick instead of at least twice the amount. If it turns out to be a good movie, then I will have enjoyed it from the comfort of my own home theater.

Of course what I’m mentioning here is nothing new to anyone who enjoys a good movie. It’s just that Hollywood kind of forgot to let the movie theater companies know that they’ve changed up their strategy. They’re pumping out DVDs and making them accessible to the consumer because that’s where the real revenue stream begins. Bad opening weekend? No problema, just yank it from the theaters and place it in retail outlets to be rented over and over again and watch the money roll in. Think I’m kidding? Well Walmart knows what I’m talking about. The company recently entered into an agreement with Netflix to cross-advertise rentals and sales of DVDs. http://money.cnn.com/2005/05/19/technology/personaltech/walmart_netflix.reut/

This way, both Netflix and Walmart can establish themselves as one big, slobbering DVD behemoth.

Let’s get back to the box office situation. I am the first to admit that I enjoy the excitement of opening weekend if there’s a movie I’ve been dying to see. The decision to make on which theater to attend, what time to view it and whether I want to catch the earliest show or the latest is all a part of the fun. There’s nothing worse, though, than to get one’s self all worked up to see a movie based on the trailers when it turns out that the ads for the movie were the only high points of the flick. After a few colossal movie disappointments I tend to shy away from the box office. Then, months later, the lure of another slick thriller or sci-fi movie will peak my interest and I’ll be waiting in line with my hard earned cash, only to be disappointed again.

Here’s the situation as I see it. Most movies offered to the general public really, really suck. In most cases, if you’ve seen one, you’ve seen them all. A few manage to surprise and actually be worthwhile, but they are too few and far between to even mention. If a company is going to spend millions of dollars on marketing, advertising, actors, producers and directors, why not take the time to make it as profitable as possible? Why not invest the time in building stories that more people can relate to?

I’ve been reading quite a bit that most moviegoers aren’t ready for a black (African-American) leading lady. Well how would anyone know if an honest effort isn’t put forth to make the casting enjoyable and believable? Why don’t we have more positive and interesting stories about all types of ethnic groups, Indians, Africans and Asians? Why, when Latinas are cast in roles opposite black (African-American) men are they usually lighter with straighter hair? If we are truly beginning to embrace Latino culture in mass media, why aren’t they truly represented in their vast array of shades of brown?

Movies tend to represent or reflect our own hopes, dreams, fears and occasionally even our own realities. Movie theaters will continue to suffer and moviegoers will continue to wait until the price is right before taking a chance on a movie. What happens to the movie industry remains to be seen, but until it gets better you know where to find me – in front of my Netflix DVD with a bag of microwave popcorn.

Chandra Adams
Author
Shades of Retribution
AdrolitePress.com
ChandraAdams.com

Tom, Oprah and Katie

2005-05-27T01:51:00.000-07:00

Tom, Oprah and Katie

I’m so glad that I discovered late-night Oprah reruns, I feel somehow reunited with her world since I always manage to forget to set the VCR. I was even more pleased to find that I had tuned in to the Tom Cruise interview. I’d read some commentary about his alleged head-over-heels demonstration of love for Katie Holmes, and I would get a chance to see first hand this much-discussed display of admiration with my own two eyes.

Allow me to clear something up right away. I’ve never been a huge fan of Tom Cruise. I’m sure he’s a wonderful guy; he’s good looking and a powerful box office magnet. My rebellious streak has kept me from embracing Hollywood’s golden boy, mainly because he’s Hollywood’s golden boy. With that said, he almost won me over at one point as Lestat in Interview With The Vampire but the movie ended up making me sick to my stomach. His performance in Vanilla Sky encapsulated everything I despise about Hollywood and their chosen ones. Doing little more than showing off a million dollar smile for two hours and sixteen minutes does not a good movie make. Cruise’s role in Collateral with Jamie Foxx, however, really made him more accessible to me and I’ve been growing increasingly comfortable with giving him credit for his talent.

So around 1:05 am, as I stood in my living room working my biceps with an impressive six pounds of iron, I watched Tom Cruise join Oprah onstage as her studio audience almost hyperventilated, fainted and went into shock in one fantastically nauseating display of admiration for this man. Now I will admit he does have a nice smile and once could acknowledge a certain charm he might possess. He’s definitely getting better with age.

Next thing I know Oprah is all over him about Katie Holmes and for the next few minutes (more like, the rest of the show) he talks about how fantastic she is. Most remarkably, he proceeded to jump around like he had just won a soccer game to emphasize his woman’s virtues. Oprah egged him on, commented that he’s normally so private, and asked him what had changed. Tom went on to explain that Katie is just so astronomically incredible, how she just really cares about people in the world and blah, blah, blah. He broke into another round of unbridled enthusiasm and jumped up on Oprah’s yellow leather couch with his shoes on.

Now I don’t know about anybody else, but I would have had to tell him to get his behind off my pretty leather couch, jumping up and down like he’d lost his mind. Maybe when you’re a multi-millionaire and you can replace it with no problem, it’s just not a big deal. But where I come from, that’s just a no-no. My grandmother kept her couch covered with plastic, so you know you had to be straight out of your mind to even think about standing up on it. My mother had a kind of quiet “try-it-and-die” way about her, so I didn’t think about stomping on the family furniture either. So for Tom Cruise to do this on Oprah’s couch, on her television show, in her studio for God’s sake, tells me a few things about Tom, Oprah and Katie.

Tom is whipped. Or, he’s facing a mid-life crisis (he’s 42, she’s 26) and really needs the attention of this young woman.

Oprah is truly a genius. She is very smooth in her dealings with all types of people. Oprah can take an absolutely mundane topic and make it mean something. For instance, who cares if Tom is in love with Katie? At first I thought she must be having a difficult time finding material for her show. Then, as I watched Tom drag Katie from backstage to kiss and hug her on national television, I thought to myself now that’s how a woman ought to be treated. When you think of how many women would love to receive even a fraction of the admiration and affection Tom Cruise showed Katie Holmes in those few minutes, I really started to see that the show may have touched somebody out there and could inspire someone to want more from a relationship.

Now as for Katie, she must be puttin’ it on Tom somethin’ fierce. I was waiting for him to start speaking in tongues the way he was carrying on. To get an Oprah show devoted to how good your loving is, I have to give that woman some respect. So whether they are poised to take Brad’s and Jen’s place as the new Hollywood beautiful couple or the display was all one big, absurd stunt to prop up their upcoming movies, it was a definitely a noteworthy spectacle.

American Idol Revelations

2005-05-19T00:36:00.000-07:00

American Idol Revelations

I drove home in the rain (is this California or Washington state?) in mid-May relishing the thought of watching television. It was going to be a flip-flop between American Idol and Revelations on NBC, and I knew just the right time to check on the AI results. You know, the results show is murder. A whole half-hour wasted. They should do like Powerball and take about three minutes to announce the winners. I’m surprised that no one has fainted on that results show, or slapped Ryan Seacrest because I know I would have to at least try.

Bo Bice has been my favorite from the very first time I heard him sing, he’s the real deal. When I listen to him I’m transported back to junior high school, where I often sat in my yellow bedroom listening to K101 play Journey, Chicago and the Eagles. When I mention that I like those groups to some folks, they look at me like I was transported from another galaxy. Yes, I will admit it. While all of the friends I have now were listening to Run DMC, I was listening to soft rock. I usually try to play it off like I was deep in hip hop from the beginning, but it couldn’t be farther from the truth, I confess. Shoot me and string me up in the hood from the highest lamppost.

I watched Vonzell audition for the show and knew she was going to be around for a while. She would be my favorite right now, but for some reason I just can’t connect with her. Carrie is also a great singer, but I find her difficult to connect with as well. They are both very pretty women and will probably do well, but Bo moved himself far ahead of the pack when he sang a cappella on last night’s show. He is a true rock star, one that I was afraid would be overlooked because of the other ‘rocker’ Constantine.

Sometimes I wonder why I still watch American Idol. Every year it seems I make the decision to never watch again, and here I am, once again. When Ruben won I cried like black people had just won the right to vote, in my living room on the phone with my friends long distance. When Fantasia won, I almost cried, but she wasn’t my favorite at the time. Now that I have her cd, I’m very glad she was the one. I won’t cry when Bo wins, but I will be looking for his cd.

I would love to see Arsenio Hall replace Ryan Seacrest. I’m sure it would help ratings. But wasn’t he rumored to have once dated Paula? Maybe not a good idea, since her other, uh, ex-boyfriend has caused her enough trouble with ABC Primetime exclusives. So when will this show end? Will I follow it next year? I even allowed it to interrupt my viewing of Revelations, a very good miniseries. I wish they would show it again after American Idol’s finale. The only criticism I have of the miniseries is that it didn’t include a very diverse cast. But I suppose that if I ever gain creative control over a miniseries, I can make the cast look like whatever I want. Well, at least the Antichrist in the story didn’t emerge from the Congo or Egypt or something kooky like that, and they didn’t include any black (African-American) actors in the plot only to have their heads lopped off or endure some other extremely grisly murder early on in the show. I was most impressed with Michael Massee’s performance as Isaiah Haden the murdering Satanist, reminded me of some managers I’ve had in the past. Well, I guess I’ll have to try to get my Netflix movies delivered for Wednesday nights from now on or just give in and go to the gym.

Chandra Adams

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This Goes Out To All My Baby Mamas

2005-05-10T23:49:00.000-07:00

This goes out to all my baby mamas…

Recently I purchased Fantasia’s CD and out of all the songs on ‘Free Yourself’ (which is very good I might add) that Baby Mama song got trapped in my head.

B-a-b-y

It wouldn’t let me be as I drove up I-680 at breakneck speed to try to flee the chant. I sliced through highway 24 to the Bay Bridge and hurled three dollars at the toll-taker, wheels screeching as I begged for mercy. Really, I really wanted to think about something else but there it goes again

M-a-m-a

Oh somebody help me…please.

This goes out to all my baby mamas…

I made it home somehow, hours later. I wandered to my computer to Google the song, wanted to see if there was something (This is what I get for purchasing a new CD on my tight budget) I could do to make it STOP. Finding nothing, I tried plugging my ears with cotton and borrowed my neighbor’s motorcycle helmet. As I slid the helmet over my head and resumed my internet search, I ran across an article about Halle Berry. Seems she wants a baby ‘whether a father is in place or not’.

B-a

Maybe Fantasia’s song is taking over the space in her head too?

b-y

Oh, Halle, Halle, Halle girl. You know, she is the only woman I know of that has more ongoing, continuous drama than me. The thing is, nobody would ever know if she didn’t tell it in such excruciating detail. Part of me wants to tell her to shush, but on the other hand I honestly admire her because she is not afraid to show just how human she is. Not afraid to reveal that she could become a baby mama too, at least as far as being a single mother goes anyway. Waiting for child support checks she will probably not be doing.

Songs carry a lot of weight in our lives, whether we realize it or not. They can entertain, mark significant milestones in our lives, and reveal signs of changing times. Giving birth to a child out of wedlock has traditionally been regarded as bad, sinful and something only loose women allow. A generation or so ago in this country, if you couldn’t marry the daddy and got pregnant you were sent away and the baby was likely to be given up for adoption. The child was never spoken of again and everyone moved on as if nothing ever happened, if they knew what was good for them.

Times have changed and what was once done in the dark has been brought to the light as evidenced by this anthem. Your average person will be quick to remind you that it’s a sin to bear children out of wedlock of course. What’s interesting is that more and more women who are financially independent have decided to become single mothers right alongside those who achieved this same status by circumstance. Changing times will eventually give way to different attitudes and beliefs. Although the baby mama song has been hard for me to manage in my head, there’s no denying that it is an attention grabber. I commend Fantasia for expressing herself and for standing up and saying here I am, deal with me the way I am because I’m going to hold my head up regardless.

Each of us must follow our own path. We all have our own unique set of issues, circumstances and beliefs that have led us to where we stand today. What works for me may not necessarily work for someone else and vice versa. From the projects to Beverly Hills women are faced with more increasingly accepted choices with regard to motherhood, and I say choose wisely and may God bless you.

Chandra Adams

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Down Low

2005-05-04T23:47:00.000-07:00

When I first heard about the Down Low drama, I was watching a preview of the Oprah Winfrey Show. The author of “On The Down Low…” J.L. King, had information to share that every woman involved with a Black man should know. Like many of my friends I decided to tune in, only to hear what I had already been told by a couple of my friends, who are black and gay. J.L. King sat on Oprah’s couch and shocked many in the nation about this new wave of deception – and warned many to beware, because someone you love could be lying to you. Just because your man says he’s heterosexual, it doesn’t mean that he is.

Which raises a very important question with regard to promiscuity in general: What drives a human being to be unfaithful to the point of destroying another person’s health?

The San Francisco Chronicle recently published a trio of articles by Jason B. Johnson about the Down Low controversy and the spreading of HIV and AIDS in black communities http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2005/05/01/MNG4TCID0F1.DTL. The first was a broad examination of the connection between AIDS, black men on the DL and the rising number of black women contracting HIV. Another article profiled the evolution of one black man from heterosexuality to homosexuality. The other, and most compelling story was one of a preacher husband who knowingly infected his wife with HIV.

Why are black communities so unwilling to tolerate open dialogue about homosexuality and AIDS? According to health and social advocates, ‘black men have had to front when it comes to the issue of homosexuality, because of the extremely strong stigma against it. In black churches, homosexuality has long been decried from the pulpit.’

If we keep going at the current rate, we won’t have any black communities to worry about. It is a real tragedy that black men and women haven’t figured out how to communicate with each other on real, life-threatening issues. So many factors come into play that I’m not really sure it’s fair to place the blame solely on the men. I do believe without a doubt that it’s wrong to be unfaithful, to lie about the status of your health when it comes to HIV and STD’s. Here’s a questions that needs to be raised – how many women lie and deceive themselves to maintain the status quo? Many of us, raised in very strict, Christian households, don’t have the advantage of knowing what’s going on with our mate who may be more worldly. For those ladies, my heart goes out to you. But then, quite similarly to their husbands and mates who like dudes, some women prefer to pretend that nothing’s going on. They may sense something’s not right, but by the time the kids have arrived, the Mercedes is parked in the garage, the four-bedroom house is in full effect and they’ve established a certain status in their churches and communities, it’s easy to just act like everything’s cool. Becoming increasingly more responsible for ourselves whether we are married, single, dating or otherwise is the order of the day. Regular HIV testing is essential for all of us these days. Before the condom comes off, find out who and what you’re dealing with.

One thing I’ve observed is that the only thing worse than lies are secrets. Secrets are like poison and hurt everyone, from the person that harbors one to the person that never had the benefit of knowing that pertinent information. I’d like to see more churches encourage people to be open and to be themselves, their whole selves, so that more individuals may be truly healed.

Chandra Adams
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Shades of Retribution
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